Sunday, January 23, 2011
Room For Change: PBO
Packed by Owner
Purged by Owner
Protected by Owner
Picked by Owner
Placed by Owner
Pondered by Owner
Well the official winner is " Packed by Owner" in the moving company world, but all the others could be merged right into the concept. Packed by Owner means the move will be less costly. Packed by Owner means if it's broke on the other end , you are responsible and Packed by Owner can mean hours of agonizing decisions or freeing of the mind and spirit.
I will gather my boxes and decide what to start with. Deciding what you can do without for a while may give you an idea of what you have too much of or even what you have neglected. It may also give you a time to reflect on the items presence in your life now compared to later. Isn't this what I should be doing in little steps each day? How often have I really got on that ball for my abs or brought the desk lamp out to use this year. When was the last time those speakers were used? and where did all the mix mash of wires come from?
Okay. My first box will be books set into categories. ( Just reads, Interior Design, Spiritual and Religious and Grief.) Next my art supplies from the garage and closet and grouping of all non-attacked canvases in the same general area will be stacked. Third will be my bellydancing garb that is dispersed in several areas of the house along with its accompanying music. I can do without these items for a few weeks or months.
Photo to follow. Oh yes, forgot the cookbooks that I seldom use above and the teapot collection that usually lays adjacent in the cupboard above the refrigerator. This was purged on the last move so no agonizing decisions this time around, although I may give one of the teapots to a friend at work with some flowers in it.
Next are the vases that lay dormant in my pantry. I packed them yesterday, then as quickly as they were packed I bought myself some fresh flowers at the grocery store to liven my dissembled living environment. Now one vase sits on my dusty round table adjacent to my small sofa which no longer has its accents pillows due to their new function as padding for the pictures taken down in haste from the walls!
Practicing what I preach is arduous, but making little sanctuaries in an unfolding home is important to me and can make the "have-to's" less burdensome.
I have also given some of my once gazed upon books to others to gaze upon and send on their merry way. I have snuck into both adjacent neighbors' yards and put lawn ornaments ( tasteful ones) for them to discover. It is easier to pass things on with the hope that your beloved items will find a way to someone else with the same passion you once had for them.
PBO also represents Participation by Others , in the items you enjoy. Creating room for change is creating space in all areas of your life. My focus this week is items, so keep that front door light on, as there are more items I need to be "PBO"ing!