Wednesday, May 25, 2011
Room For Change: In Outlook and In Growth
I often turn to the scriptures in times of weariness, to find the respite I need or for the acknowledgement of better times to come. The above reference in Isaiah 2 was very comforting this morning, yet I also acknowledge that God is within me and that what starts within my own soul or being goes outward. ( It is quite the opposite of what goes on in Vegas stays in Vegas!)
Further reference in this scripture is "beating swords into plowshares" and " beating spears into pruning hooks" as all warring is dissipated. Those of you that know how I "see" in pictures , this vision came alive in an instant.
How does this have anything to do with grief, loss and change? Why talk about assault and growth at the same time or even try to change the outlook of the world.? No, I have not gone mad and I am not claiming world peace to come within the next 6 months!
In loss and grief, our world and emotions feel like the entire world. Everything that ever challenged our comfort zone amplifies in loss and grief. The boxing gloves come on and the gnashing of teeth starts! After my husband and father's death, I wanted to accuse everything and everybody.
Time can heal, but the site of the wound may be there. The site can also be viewed as what was excised to bring us closer to whole or closer to being the holistic individual of Divine creation.
The swords are turned into plowshares to cut the furrows to plant the seed.
The spears are bend into pruning hooks to remove what is superfluous and trim for bigger and fuller and healthier growth. What encouraging words in grief and loss and change.
So whether the Bible is a source of your solace and support or not, the image of the " imagined" cruelty in loss still pierces, still stings. Yet, with time, with repurposing and reflection, the pain and the infliction does reinvent its initial purpose. The scar may be there, but the wounding can be lifted.
In grief, let your burden be shared, let the new seeds sprout in small ways and never underestimate taking away what is superfluous for you today.
Those of us, in grief and experiencing loss and its changes in our lives, can be like the bamboo plant with its resilience, humility and uprightness. It bends, but is seldom breaks.
Redesign and repurpose what you have for your renewed outlook and growth. You are resilient!